I am not quite good enough
Like many women of my generation, I thought of myself as not quite good enough for the various powerful positions in politics.
Baroness Shirley Williams talks openly on radio 4 about how she and many women always think about themselves as the Deputy…the deputy eduction minister but not the education minister, the deputy prime minister but not the prime minister…
Why do so many women although qualified, never put themselves for the top jobs? Why, when asked do women say they make a good no 2 but not a good no 1? Why do they often say they are not visionary or entrepreneurial but are more happy just doing the job?
If you go back to show and tell in American schools, more often than not the boys are the first to put their hand up to’ show.’ As girls, we are often taught not to put ourselves forward but stand back and watch from the sidelines.
I have some wonderful, smart confident female friends. None of them think they would make great leaders or could run their own business.
I am convinced that this has nothing to do with their ability. It is more about the way society and their families set expectations about what girls should do. Rather than what they could do.
The reason for this perceived lack of ability, according to Baroness Williams, is that women perceive men as ‘giant size’ and themselves as ordinary human size. She concludes by observing that it took all her political life to realise that while those men had projected a giant size image, they were not themselves giants either.
Whatever the reason, the fact remains that while women are not represented in the higher echelons of corporate life (62% of FTSE 100 companies still have NO women on their boards), men continue to dictate what products and services are available to women, particularly in areas such as technology and science which are still dominated by men.
We must ensure women have a voice, if not a seat, in the boardroom. We must raise the agenda collectively and make sure women are seen not as a ‘niche’ audience but as the future drivers of growth and profitability.
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